Want to meet your man? Gay clubs are the way to go. Hot sweaty men all packed into a club gyrating to the wee hours of the morn are the perfect recipe for fun. But you don’t necessarily have to go to a “gay” club. Sometimes the best fun is had at a club that has a gay night. Here’s where to go in America’s top cities.

New York
Gay clubs in New York are a dime a dozen. But “whipped” at the club Baddies in the West Village is one of the hottest nights around. It’s not exclusively gay, but with the fashion crowd in high attendance, you can be sure the queers will be out in full force. With great music playing, like the Smiths and Das Racist, you’ll definitely have a good time.

Miami

Gay clubs in Miami are just about everywhere. But Bar 721 is a fresh addition to what can sometimes be a stale scene. Chic but not too over-the-top, it’s cozy but not so tiny you’ll feel confined. It even has a pool table so you can challenge that hottie to a game.

Los Angeles
Everyone who knows anything about gay bars in Los Angeles knows all about the Abbey. This institution is practically like gay headquarters in Los Angeles. It even attracts straights who just want to enjoy the laidback ambiance. The anti-gay gay bar doesn’t have a drag queen in sight and Gaga is played at a minimum. But it doesn’t stop the Abbey from being one of the most popular bars in L.A.

San Francisco
The Stud is a gay club in San Francisco that doesn’t disappoint. If you’re into drag, Heklinka’s famed Tuesday drag show Trannyshack is something that can’t be missed. They even have a psychic doing tarot card readings. It’s always packed which ensures you’ll always have a good time.